Friendship and self-harm: a retrospective qualitative study of young adults' experiences of supporting a friend who self-harmed during adolescence

Journal article

Introduction: Self-harm amongst young people is becoming increasinglyprevalent. Understanding, responding to, and supporting young people who self-harm is vital. Friends are typically the first and sometimes the only source of support sought by adolescents who self-harm. Despite their important role asconfidants, friends’ perspectives and experiences remain poorly understood.Methods: We conducted retrospective qualitative semi-structured interviews,prompted by an adapted version of the Card Sort Task for Self-Harm (CaTS-FF), about the experiences of nine female young adults (18-20 years old) whosupported a friend who self-harmed during adolescence. Data were analyzedusing thematic analysis.Results: Four themes were developed: (1) “I did not realize my friend was on theroad to self-harm”: Friends’ reactions to self-harm; (2) “That’s what friends do”: the role of friends; (3) The impact of supporting a friend who self-harms; and (4) “They were quite formative years”: reflecting on growth through the experience.Discussion: The present findings highlight the complex experiences of youngpeople supporting a friend who self-harms. Despite being willing to take on therole of a supporter, participants experienced a range of difficult emotions andconsequences. The temporal transition running through the four themes reflectsthe evolving nature of participants’ attitudes, knowledge, and friendships. Overall, results highlight the unmet needs of adolescents supporting young people who self-harm, as well as identifying potential pathways to “support the supporters” toward resilience

Authors: Bilello, D; Townsend, E; Broome, MR; Heyes, SB

• Publication status: Published
• Peer review status: Peer reviewed
• Publisher: Frontiers Media
• Journal: Frontiers in Psychology
• Volume: 14
• Pages: 1221661
• Article number: 1221661
• Publication date: 2024-02-02
• DOI: 10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1221661
• EISSN: 1664-1078
• ISSN: 1664-1078
• Language: English
• Keywords: Developmental psychology; Suicide prevention; Deliberate self-harm; Medical emergency; Qualitative research; Clinical psychology; Psychology; Social psychology; Medicine; Poison control; Harm; Friendship